Black Tie Optional: A Dress Code Guide For Men

Black Tie Optional: A Dress Code Guide For Men 2018-06-07T13:54:51+00:00

Daniel Craig in a single-breasted shawl collar tuxedo.

In this article, we’ll be discussing the most generous of all dress codes: black tie optional. We’ll address what you can wear and offer other helpful tips for your attire including:

If you’ve found yourself here in error or need information on a different dress code, take a quick look at our dress code guide.

Not every man owns a tuxedo. In fact, relatively few do. Furthermore, dinner jackets can be quite expensive, especially if you go the made-to-measure or bespoke route. Black tie-optional offers such men the opportunity to attend semi-formal evening events without having to shell out a ton of money for new clothes. How thoughtful!

What Does Black Tie Optional Mean?

Black tie-optional refers to a dress code in which a tuxedo/dinner jacket (black tie) is requested, but guests have the option to wear a dark business suit if they so choose. They take place in the evening, just as standard black tie events do.


We call this the most generous of the dress codes because it’s a judgement-free acknowledgement that not all men own or can afford true semi-formalwear. Tuxedos aren’t necessarily expensive, but they’re always more expensive than comparable suits due to the additional material needed for the facings.

Which Types Of Events Are Black Tie Optional?

Any event that’s otherwise black tie can become black tie-optional if the host decides it to be so. These could be weddings, evening celebrations for religious rites of passage like communions and bar-mitzvahs, and even certain galas.

What To Wear To A Black Tie Optional Event


To begin with, your options are two-fold: a tuxedo or a suit. If you want to wear a tuxedo, you must adhere to the rules of black tie.

It’s not quite that simple, though.

If you opt to wear a suit to a black tie-optional event, that’s totally fine. To keep up with tuxedos in the same room, you’ll essentially follow a strict, evening wear-driven version of the business professional dress code.

There are some parameters with which you should be familiar regarding your attire:

The Suit

You suit must be dark. This is one of the rare occasions in which it’s acceptable to wear a black suit. Dark charcoal and deep navy are also perfectly acceptable options.

The Shirt

Your shirt should be white. French cuffs are great, but barrel cuffs are fine too. In a pinch, a light blue shirt will work. Avoid patterned shirts.

The Shoes

When it comes to black tie optional shoes your best is to go with a pair of black leather dress shoes.

Here are some of the best shoes for black tie optional dress code:

The Tie

Keep your tie muted: A black, navy, deep plum, or deep burgundy tie will work wonderfully. Whether you choose a necktie or a bowtie, select a solid color as opposed to one with a pattern.

The Accessories

Keep colorful accessories to a minimum: Now is not the time for wild and crazy socks or novelty braces. Feel free to throw on a boutonniere for some added dash, though!

The beauty of this is that if your capsule wardrobe is fleshed out, you will already have everything you need to attend a black tie-optional affair. Click the preceding link if you’re unsure of what a capsule wardrobe is (and if you don’t know, you’ll find a ton of value in it!).

What Not To Wear To A Black Tie Optional Event

Sure, there are options. It’s in the title of the dress code, isn’t it?

Man In Khaki Suit And Sunglasses

Of course there are, but not all of them are available to you. Here are some basic things to avoid:

  • Light-colored suits: Black tie-optional events take place in the evening, and a suit in light grey or khaki (pictured above) simply won’t cut it.
  • Odd jackets & trousers: If you’re thinking about wearing khakis and a blazer to a black tie-optional gathering, think again. Even the smartest “odd” combinations are too casual for an affair with tuxedos.
  • An outfit without a tie: You need to wear a tie. It doesn’t matter if it’s a bow tie or a neck tie, but you need to wear one. And you need to tie it yourself.
  • Crazy socks: You may wear crazy socks to a casual office, the movies, a date, a crazy sock convention, or similar situations. For black tie-optional events, keep your socks the same color as your trousers.

In Summation

For a man who doesn’t own a tuxedo and wisely refuses to rent one, black tie-optional events are his best friend. You can minimize expense by utilizing your existing wardrobe and still look like a million bucks when you’re out on the town amongst the tuxedo-wearing masses.

For more information on other dress codes, see our guide to dress codes.

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  1. Jim March 11, 2018 at 8:48 pm - Reply

    How about a light green shirt or a dark green tie for a “black tie optional” wedding on St. Patrick’s Day?

    • Charles-Philippe March 12, 2018 at 5:39 am - Reply

      Hi Jim,

      Usually green shirts are quite daring and wouldn’t be something that you’d expect from black tie optional attire. However, if the wedding is already St Patrick’s Day themed, then I imagine that a lot of people would be incorporating green in to their outfits too. Personally, I say go for it! If you’re not sure, check with other guests if you know some and see how they’re dressing.



  2. MATT March 31, 2018 at 11:33 am - Reply

    What about a purple checkered shirt,with matching tie, for a black tie optional wedding on easter?

    • Charles-Philippe April 3, 2018 at 2:39 am - Reply

      Hi Matt,

      Although shirts should usually be white on black tie optional occasions, you should be fine with a purple checked shirt for a wedding. Nevertheless, it depends on the ensemble as a whole. Think about the shirt’s cut as well as the type of suit and shoes that you’ll be wearing. You can use certain elements to lift the formality of your attire to give you more freedom in other areas.

      For instance, does the shirt have barrel or French cuffs? If the latter, the purple check won’t be too casual at all. You can also read our guide on shoe formality to learn more.

      All the best,


  3. alex maluk April 20, 2018 at 4:08 pm - Reply

    what about a banded collar tuxedo shirt with a black onyx button cover, i hate ties

    • Charles-Philippe April 21, 2018 at 1:47 pm - Reply

      Hi Alex,

      Banded Mandarin-style collars are certainly an option if you’re not a fan of ties. Although they’re not a traditional option, we wouldn’t rule them out for those who have a real aversion to the style.

      All the best,


  4. Mark May 15, 2018 at 2:05 am - Reply

    I have read mixed info on the net re: a dark grey suit at a black tie optional event. I will be going to a black tie optional wedding later this month, and don’t have a black suit and wondering if my grey (not light) suit will cut the mustard.
    Why the mixed info from other sites? Is it controversial and safer just to buy a black suit?

    • Paul Anthony May 15, 2018 at 9:03 pm - Reply

      Hey Mark,

      Thanks for the comment.

      If this is the one occasion in a blue moon you’d need a black suit, I’d say you’re fine with the dark grey (especially if peak lapel).

      Make sure to wear black shoes (unless you have some funky tuxedo loafers, for some flare), keep the tie black and pocket square white, with a white french cuff shirt.

      For several years I wore a navy blue peak lapel suit for my “black tie optional” before I had the ongoing need for a tux / more fun smoking jackets.

      Hope that helps.

      Thanks – Paul Anthony

  5. Cody June 22, 2018 at 6:55 pm - Reply

    How about British Tan shoes with a Navy suit to a black tie optional event? My black shoes don’t look great with my navy suit.

  6. Charles-Philippe June 24, 2018 at 4:17 am - Reply

    Hi Cody,

    Hmmmm, British Tan is a little too light for navy if you ask me. Although black shoes would be ideal, darker browns such as Cordovan or Oxblood would be acceptable. However, when it’s specifically a black tie optional event, I’d be hesitant to wear anything but black.



  7. Ritchie July 6, 2018 at 10:36 am - Reply

    Hi, what about a dark burgundy suit and trousers. Black shirt. Burgundy tie, same as the suit and trousers

  8. Charles-Philippe July 6, 2018 at 1:41 pm - Reply

    Hi Richie,

    Personally, a burgundy suit sounds more like something to wear as cocktail attire. However, if it’s very dark, it might be okay.

    Nevertheless, I’d switch out the burgundy tie for a black one so that it’s closer to the dress code.

    How does that sound?



  9. Iqbal Abdollah July 12, 2018 at 5:08 am - Reply


    What is more appropriate? The suit with slim-fit feature or regular fit?

    • Charles-Philippe July 12, 2018 at 5:35 am - Reply

      Hi Iqbal,

      Both are fine but your body type plays an important role here. You can learn more with our guide to men’s body types.



  10. Tyler July 15, 2018 at 11:53 pm - Reply

    When selecting a suit for my black tie optional event (work banquet) the fellow in store (suitsupply) recommended a mid lightness grey birds eye suit with some nice texture. Along with that he recommended some black Venetian loafers like what you have mentioned, black silk tie, white shirt, black leather belt and black pocket square same material as the tie. I love the suit but am wondering if I’ll stick out.

    • Charles-Philippe July 16, 2018 at 4:33 am - Reply

      Hi Tyler,

      Hmmm, you might stick out a little bit but if you love the suit, I’d say go for it! Black tie optional does normally suggest a dark suit but birdseye tends to have black stitching to create the effect.

      My only comment is to refrain from a black pocket square if it matches the tie too much. I’d instead opt for a white one that matches the shirt instead. It’s more classic and will rein in the forward-fashion look with something conventional.



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