If you’re growing your hair into a long style for the first time, it can quickly become complicated as it’s very different to having short hair. However, men’s long hair is fantastic but it’s important to know how to style it.
In this guide, you will learn how to grow, style, and care for men’s long hair as well as our recommended styles and men’s long hair history:
- Long Hairstyles
- Long Hair Care & Growing Tips For Men
- How To Grow & Style Men’s Long Hair
- A Brief History Of Men’s Long Hair
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How To Style Men’s Long Hair
Above, we list our dedicated long hairstyle guides, which you can visit for specific styling tips for your face shape. Otherwise, men’s long hair is surprisingly versatile and can be styled a great number of ways.
While it’s still growing, however, it can be very frustrating and quite limiting! Indeed, you can’t tie it back and people with thick hair have to wait until it’s heavy enough to fall naturally with gravity.
Until then, you can use a matte wax such as Gatsby Moving Rubber Loose Shuffle. Unlike regular wax, it offers a very loose hold and natural finish. Therefore, it doesn’t make the hair greasy and helps tame your mane.
Conversely, don’t shy away from mousse if volume is an issue and you have thin hair. In fact, there are lots of types of mousse that help boost volume and condition the hair too. Nevertheless, you should ensure that you regularly condition your hair so that it has plenty of natural volume.
Living proof produces an excellent full thickening mousse, which works from the roots and brings life to your hair. This mousse can really boost dull long hair at any stage of its growth.
Finally, you’ll likely find yourself using a lot of products that are originally marketed for women. Since men rarely have long hair, it’s just a reality. However, don’t feel that it undermines your masculinity whatsoever! Healthy hair is sexy whatever your gender or sexual orientation.
In fact, long and healthy hair was a sign of unwavering virility as you’ll learn below in the history section.
What Are The Different Long Hairstyles For Men?
You can read all about specific long hairstyles by clicking on one of the appropriate icons below. However, please take note that we’ve categorised 7 face shapes, which play a deciding factor in determining how each style may suit men differently.
If you don’t yet know your face shape, we strongly recommend you identify it before you continue reading.
To learn more about a particular hairstyle, head to the guides above. Otherwise, for more general tips on growing and caring for long hair, read on!
Men’s Long Hair Care & Growing Tips For Men
Growing your hair long requires only one thing and that is considerable patience. You may hear of various old wive’s tales on how to grow it faster such. These can consist of magic potions and regular brushing, but there is little evidence that these work at all.
The only advice we can offer here is to be patient, grasshopper. Generally, it’s best to hold off from a trip to the barbershop for as long as possible. Nevertheless, if it’s really unmanageable, you can pay him or her a visit to try and make it easier
Simply explain your situation and what you’re aiming to grow. The barber will likely find an excellent temporary style that will help it grow into what you want.
Otherwise, when you’ve reached your desired length, don’t hesitate to head to a barber’s just to have those dead ends taken away. It neatens the finish and keeps the hair clean. Be very clear that you don’t want any length actually removing. Otherwise, all that hard work might end up being for nothing!
We men may be reluctant to reach for hair-care products because we’re anxious that this will somehow undermine our masculinity as mentioned above. Sure, you could go for the very manly-named alternatives but behind the packaging, they’re often the exact same thing.
Although it won’t make your hair grow any faster, brushing is a primordial requirement for long hair. If you don’t brush, you’ll find yourself very quickly in a matted, tangled hair. Tangles are also particularly prominent if you don’t clean your hair properly. Creams and oils in small amounts can be used for extra shine and volume.
Furthermore, they can be applied for styling and to give the wearer some extra control when he wants to brush it in a particular way. Just be mindful not to use too much to avoid appearing like a seagull caught in an oil spill.
How To Shampoo Long Hair
Making sure that your hair is as healthy as it is clean requires the appropriate amount of washing. And contrary to popular belief, shampooing is probably a lot less frequent than you think. In fact, only a very small portion of people actually need to shampoo on a daily basis. For example, people with fine hair, an oily scalp, living in humid areas or exercise a lot may need to shampoo daily.
The scalp produces a natural oil called sebum that nourishes and protects the hair. It’s a by-product that makes the hair shine and creates volume so needs to be preserved when possible. Shampoo works by trapping oils. Therefore, if you use it too frequently, the result leaves you with very dry hair, which breaks and tangles.
Men with short hair can get away with daily shampooing because the scalp needs less time to replenish it with oils. However, men with long hair need to find that balance, which is often no more than three or four times a week.
Whilst shampoo cleans the hair by essentially stripping it of oils, conditioner replenishes it. Again, this is something that may cause men to turn their nose up but conditioner is absolutely vital if you want to keep your long hair looking healthy. Remember that long hair is supposed to look dignified on a man and not wilting like a dying indoor plant!
Men’s Long Hair History
The Ancient Egyptians were one of the first notable civilisations to crop or even shave their heads. Yet they’d wear wigs that would vary in length according to status. The symbolic duality of long hair set against short hair is prevalent throughout our short history.
Needless to say, men’s long hairstyle have come and gone throughout history. The Romans were fervent advocates of short hair. It was their belief that long hair was a hallmark of uncultured barbarians. Roman men considered personal grooming to be a hallmark of a sophisticated civilisation.
Slave hairdressers called Ornatrices would usually style their wealthy master’s hair. However, the common man would prefer the social environment of the Tonstrina or barbershop. Conversely, the Gauls believed that long, braided hair indicated status and good health.
Throughout the Middle Ages, hair length would fluctuate according to the fashions of the time. Frank kings such as Charlemagne would famously grow impressive and wavy manes, which were typically associated with power.
Merovingian kings would prefer death before a humiliating haircut, which indicated the loss of their claim to the throne. However in the 11th Century, Pageboy hairstyles featuring cropped hair and fringes crept into fashion. This can be seen worn by the Normans in the Bayeux Tapestry.
From The Renaissance To The French Revolution
With the Renaissance came a period of Greco-Roman revival. The hair would start to be cropped shorter again for its association with a cultured civilisation. Henry VII, for example, would have the hair cut to just below the ear. However, Henry VIII’s hair would only get shorter as he aged (probably due to Syphilis).
Across the channel, however, Louis XIII of France sought to conceal his premature baldness and the wig began to appear. Men’s long hairstyles at least worn as wigs surged in popularity across Europe especially through his son and successor, Louis XIV.
Perukes or periwigs would endure the 17th Century among the privileged. However, the common man could only grow his hair long with a small ponytail at the back. He’d make create the illusion that this was a wig with the use of white powder. However, in late 18th Century UK, white hair powder started being taxed. Aristocrats such as the Duke of Bedford retaliated by cropping their hair short in protest.
Nevertheless, the styles have since given birth to iconic revisionist looks, which can be seen in film and TV. From Stanley Kubrick’s Barry Lyndon to Pirates of the Caribbean, modernised long hairstyles are everywhere.
Its sinister death rattle peaked during the French Revolution’s aftermath under Robespierre known as the Terror. Before execution, aristocrats would have the hair shorn off at the back so the guillotine would work its magic unimpeded.
Shortly after Robespierre’s own execution, surviving aristocrats organised grandiose gatherings known as the Bals des Victimes. Both male and female guests would arrive with hairstyles inspired by this, which were coined as the “coiffure à la victime”. They became enormously popular and prompted a long return to short hairstyles in men’s fashion.
Modern Long Hairstyles For Men
The second half of the 20th Century witnessed the return of long hair. However, it became a countercultural symbol of masculinity. Young men became anti-establishment and sought emancipation from imposing social constraints of the Second World War’s aftermath. From Hippies to Heavy Metal and Grunge, long hair became the rebel’s mane.
However, long hair also garnered an association with these musical subcultures. Up until the early 2010s, long-haired men have been negatively associated with social outcast stereotypes from an outdated era. In 2003, only a meagre 0.18% of men wore their hair shoulder-length or longer. However, that number has surely increased in more recent years.
Nevertheless, with the rise of the Man Bun and Top Knot, long hair has experienced its overdue renaissance. With ambassadors such as Kit Harrington, Harry Styles and Jared Leto, it’s easy to see why a man might want to be something of a rarity and show off his healthy mane.
Long hairstyles for men can come in many forms. Most barbers recognise that long hair is no less than 6 inches in length. It can be neat, clean and properly groomed. Alternatively, it can be left to follow its natural course for a dishevelled look. More fashionable styles today edge towards emphasising the hair’s natural aspect. We often see flowing layers and movement, which is simply swept back.
What Next?
Now that you have learned about styling men’s long hair, head to our individual style guides or check out more of our grooming resources:
Thanks for this post! This are awesome tips for long hairstyle
Thanks, Aidan! Much appreciated!
Best,
CP
Hi
I actually compiled a list of hair styles for anyone looking to change things up.. We haven’t included the suggested face shapes like this article does, however I think one has some pretty good descriptions for each style.
Can you send me the link?
Thanks Sari, we’re glad you liked the page.
– Paul
Bonjour!
My hairs are long and curly, but are dry and always come on my face instead of fallen back
Hair becomes silky only for an hour or two after washing
So i want to know if I’m using a wrong shampoo if yes then what should be the specifications for the right one
Hi Kanishk,
How often do you wash your hair? Do you always follow up with conditioner?
If your hair becomes dry so soon after washing, you might not be conditioning enough. Alternatively, you might be using products that aren’t “kind” enough to your hair.
I often use Aleppo soap for my hair, which doesn’t always require conditioner but I always use it afterwards.
When it gets quite dry due to seasonal changes, I’ll use an Aussie 3-Minute Miracle conditioning treatment, which really helps. I noticed that you opened your comment with “bonjour” – are you French? Aussie is really popular in France and quite easy to find in most supermarkets.
Finally, after drying your hair with a towel following a shower, blow dry it while brushing it back. It should stop falling forward so much.
Best,
CP
you shoul use old spice hair coditioner 2in1
I doubt that would help quite as much but why not?
Hi,
Your tips are really helpful and interesting. I am having long hair,doing yoga on almost regular basis also smoke very less. I am bit confused which would be best conditiner and shampoo for me. I am bit connected to natural herbal things, I am from India.
Hi Pawan,
If you resonate more with natural products, I would recommend using Aleppo soap as a shampoo. There’s nothing more natural than Aleppo soap as it consists only of olive and laurel oils as well a lye.
It lathers very well and performs as a reliable shampoo. Right after rinsing your hair, it’ll feel a bit odd in that it feels a little brittle and dry. However, once the hair is dried, it’ll feel silky and smooth!
It takes a few days to get used to it, but I’ve been using Aleppo soap for years as shampoo.
Best,
CP
Hi,
Loving your website and the tips.
Im just wondering, since I have a bit of a flat head and its large, what would be the ideal hairstyle I go for? My hair is straight. I am trying the swept back but it just accentuates the flatness even more.
Hi Josh,
Opt for something that produces height and texture. For instance, a faux hawk would be an excellent choice.
Best,
CP
Can women benefit from your shampoo?
I imagine so!
Hey man I am growing my hair out and my hair is curly and sometimes dry but soft, it always stand up and is poofy unless I wash it, can you provide some tips on how I can make it lay flat naturally with little to no products hopefully.
Try using just a few drops of coconut oil and rubbing into your hair after it has been cleaned. It often helps in producing extra volume but you just want to use a tiny amount so nobody can tell that there is oil in your hair.
All the best,
CP
Hi,
I want to grow out my hair but my hair is thick. What are your advices along the way?
Hi Ulrich,
I suggest that you plan ahead and aim for different styles while you grow it out. Unfortunately, thick hair tends to go through a difficult stage where it stands on end and looks a bit unkempt. However, the rewards far outweigh the challenges.
All the best,
CP
Also, should I have my nape shaved, like, every 2 months? They start to look untidy after some time.
Yes, absolutely. Having long hair doesn’t mean that you neglect it. On the contrary, it may need a lot more attention.
My questions never end but trust me, this is the last one :D My current hairstyle is side part with a quiff. So, this means that I have a slightly longer front. Would that be a problem during growth? Will they blend in after the hair grows out?
No worries! It’ll probably need a trim at some point but the front can be swept back as it grows. The best approach is to see a barber, explain what your end goal is, and see what he or she recommends along the way.
It’s good to know that men’s long hair is surprisingly versatile and can be styled a great number of ways and also these styles came from the renaissance period. Thank you for these historical tips!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hello! I am a Colombian 18 year old with very voluminous wavy hair. I have an oblong face (at least I’m pretty sure that’s my face shape). Would you recommend me the long hair styles here? Specifically the swept back hairstyle? If yes, can you send me photos of how to style with someone of my hair and facial characteristics please? If no, can you send me a list of recommendations please? Thank you.
My hair length is also in the area where it looks awkward.
Hi Sebastian,
The swept back page should provide you with all the advice that you’ll need for both the style and your face shape.
All the best,
CP
This is great, I was able to gain plenty of information. Thank you for posting or sharing this article, great work.
Delighted that you enjoyed it!
I want to grow my hair out but I kinda have feminine facial proportions and I’m afraid that I’ll look girly after growing out. What do you suggest?
My advice is to not worry about it and grow it out anyway :)
See how it looks and if you’re unhappy, you can restyle it!
I might want to try to grow my hair but I don’t think my face shape would approve! What a bummer. Still, worth a try.
You can always try!
thanks for sharing!
You’re welcome!
thanks for sharing!!